Couples Therapy

Rebuilding, Reconnecting and Healing your relationship with Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) starts here.

EFT is the gold standard for marriage counseling. It is a specific treatment modality for couples in distress, couples who want more connection, better communication, safety, trust and closeness. During couples counseling, we look at ongoing dynamics and patterns that continue a negative cycle resulting in feelings of disconnection. The overall goal is to deconstruct these patterns and reconstruct new patterns getting your relationship back on track.

Build, Connect & Heal

Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy is the gold standard in couples therapy. During couples counseling, we look at ongoing dynamics and patterns that continue a negative cycle resulting in feelings of disconnection. The overall goal is to deconstruct these patterns and reconstruct new patterns resulting in connection, intimacy and safety.

Understanding your communication pattern and having corrective experiences will help your relationship have deeper understanding of each other, improve communication, trust & safety. EFT therapy will help you heal any attachment injuries and turn toward each other for support, love, intimacy, partnership and security. Let’s get your relationship on track!

Common Marital Issues

Couples Therapy can help identify & break the negative patterns that can lead to:

  • marital distress
  • lack of communication
  • distance – conflict 
  • disconnection
  • lack sexual intimacy

Additional marital issues:

  • infidelity
  • substance misuse/abuse
  • pornography addiction
  • verbal abuse
  • mental illness

All relationships experience distress from time to time.  We become trapped in a negative cycle that prevents our loved ones from hearing our relational needs, giving responsiveness and over time, this can create distrust, disconnect and chip away at our felt sense of safety in our relationship.

EFT couples counseling is considered the most effective form of marriage therapy.  In EFT, your therapist has a road map for therapy to help couples understand the negative pattern that has taken over their relationship and how it impacts things like effective communication, safety, trust, connection and intimacy.

We help couple’s create corrective experiences by tuning into the underlying emotional stories (feeling afraid, alone, rejected, not good enough) that sometimes drive more reactive behavior (yelling, criticism, defensiveness, shutting down, stonewalling).

Your Therapist’s road map to healing & The Negative Cycle.